Abraham Lincoln's letter to his son's
Headmaster
" He will have to learn, I know, that all men are not just, all men are
not true. But teach him also that for every scoundrel there is a hero:
that for every selfish politician, there is a dedicated
leader…. Teach him that for every enemy there is a friend,
it will take time, I know; but teach him if you can, that a dollar
earned is of far more value than five found…. Teach him to
learn to lose and also to enjoy winning. Steer him away from envy, if
you can. Teach him the secret of quiet laughter. Let him learn early
that the bullies are the easiest to lick… Teach him, if you
can, the wonder of books… but also give him quiet time to
ponder over the eternal mystery of birds in the sky, bees in the sun
and flowers on a green hillside.
In school, teach him it is far more honourable to fail than to
cheat… Teach him to have faith in his own ideas, even if
everyone tells him they are wrong… Teach him to be gentle
with gentle people and tough with the tough. Try to give my son the
strength not to follow the crown when everyone is getting onto the
bandwagon, teach him to listen to all men, but teach him also to filter
all he hears on a screen of truth and take only the good that comes
through.
Teach him, if you can, how to laugh when he is sad… Teach
him there is no shame in tears. Teach him to scoff at cynics and to
beware of too much sweetness… Teach him to sell his brawn
and brain to the highest bidders; but never to put a price tag on his
heart and soul. Teach him to close his ears to a howling
mob… and to stand and fight if he thinks he is right.
Treat him gently; but do not cuddle him because only the test of fire
makes fine steel. Let him have the courage to be impatient…
let him have the patience to be brave. Teach him to always have sublime
faith in himself because then he will always have sublime faith in
mankind.
This is a big order, but see what you can do… he is such a
fine little fellow, my son."
Sent by C.
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